Nivas K

Power Emotions

Nivas K — Thu, 17 Jul 2008 23:58:05 +0000

What you do when you get “Frustrated” beyond terms?
You’ve done a lot of work and you’re sure you’ll be
getting the desired results and you’ve kept everything
ready,so that you can hit your “Home Run”…

but….

Out of some Unknown factors,the results are a topsy turvy..
You’ve expected to get a handful of diamonds,but what
you’ve got is a bunch of glass pebbles..

What you do at these situations..?
How will you respond to these?

I wonder,if you’ll respond or react to that…

Do you tap yourself at the back,get back the motivation
and keep yourself going or call yourself with the most
undisclosable words and get shut…

Actually,Getting Frustrated is very useful..

yeah,you heared me right..

How true when Master Hoogway (;-)) says,
“There is no good or bad news,there is just ‘News’,and
it becomes a one,in the way you’re taking it”

I’ve listed 5 Most experienced emotions of people and
what they signify..have a look at :

http://lifeofexcellence.com/power-emotions

I call them ‘POWER EMOTIONS’..

What is that mean?
Emotions which actually help you beyond measure,but in their
nature of outlook,tend to decieve to cripple you…

Take a look at these list at:

http://lifeofexcellence.com/power-emotions

Pushing forward Vs Sticking to your strengths

Nivas K — Sat, 28 Jun 2008 11:26:05 +0000

There is a critical philosophy in life,which you must follow if you want an abundant life.yeah..it is not a belief or presupposition but a philosophy..

And that is called “Stretch” that is “If I can’t,then I must”

Does that mean,if I can’t jump out of a mountain like a superman or crawl skyscrapers like a spiderman,then I must do it….no..no,…no…”Be Intelligent”…

Remember the Beer commercials by your brain….

When ever you tend to do a work which involves a little bit of risk,remember you could hear two voices in your head??

One says “Hey what if I fail?what if at the half the distance I lost the supporters? If I fail how can I continue to afford this..and blah..blah..blah…”

And other voice says “Hey.come on..move it..it is simple than it look…you can do it…it is easy…remember ‘pain in temporary,but quitting is forever….and on ..”

So Stretch is making that conscious Choice to listen to that superb inner voice cutting down that snooky smurkky beer commercial dialogues….

When you Stretch and act accordingly,you not only come out of the comfort zone but also end up discovering a great inner self which you thought never existed…

Yeah…Yeah…I know…I know…

Now your “Brain is running that one sort of beer commercials?”

‘Bu..but…I Learned once that we must always work with sticking to our strengths….’

Yes absolutely true…

‘Now you say that I must come out of my comfort zone and do things that I’ve never done in the past”

Good that you came up with that question..

Say for example,you are a IT engineer and you work in an IT Company ..but you are not that satisfied with your work..Now to go to the next level “you can stretch and start your own IT company and that’s stretch and also you’ve sticked with your strengths.You’re playing relying on your strengths..”

“But coming out of the company,shouting..”that’s it..i go out tonight and change the whole world around” and bumping around and starting a Chemical company,where you’ve no background and you know nothing about it …’ is similar to that skyscraper crawling spiderman stuff and that is a complete foolishness..

Stretch yourself and also act with your strengths..

That involves acting with a lot of courage…that involves acting on things that inspire you not the ones that you admire upon…..

Think…how wonderful it will be ..Whenever you are about to do some work which you believe can do it amazingly and you’re faced with small challenges and tend to stop,there comes a voice strongly from your back side of mind”Hey come on..If I can’t then I must..I know I can do this..”..how much more successful your life will be..even more how much fulfilled your journey of life will be…

Lastly one small story’

“Everyone wants to Live at the top of the mountain..but realize that all growth and happiness and fun is there while you’re climbing it”

Power Emotions

Nivas K — Wed, 25 Jun 2008 06:21:48 +0000

We all know very well that all our actions are determined by Emotions,though many a times we tend to justify that saying we are driven by logic even after knowing truthfully that it is a complete “Bull Shit”!.

If that’s the case, Is there some thing called Negative emotions?..well…I asked this question to many of my friends,they said numereous variety of answers from which i managed to get clarity in the fog of great confusion they created that they call the so and so emotions like Anger,Rage,Fear,Confusion,Loneliness,feeling down..etc as Negative Emotions..As a matter of gross generalisation i will take my friends as the whole people outside…

If these Emotions are called a Negative Emotions,are they going to cripple us? Do these emotions has to be fully nullifyed so as to live a fulfilled life? Are these Emotions has to be suppressed? Is that means that we don’t have to experience these emotions?

Check with the people who seek out personal development in any form..Be it Books ,Seminars ,Audio’s ,videos ,Articles..etc.. Most of their answers would be “I don’t want to feel fearful.I don’t want to procastinate .I want to be in control of my life and thats why i am going for these things?” or there are a second Breed of Personal Development seekers who used to say “I Know all these things,i am so and so called successful in my life.i want to extend my life quality.i want to teach people what i know..I seek these to get the strategies so that i can perform better” (Pretty sleek version of their justfication right? ).May be for the discussion purpose i will take them as two breeds,..one looking for ways for “Worst to Good ” and other seeking strategies for “Good to Great”…Whatever it is if they want to master their life,they MUST have to “Master the Emotions”…Period….

With that said,lets come back to the Negative Emotions? I strongly Believe that there is no such things called Negative Emotions.I consider All Emotions as Action Signals..Signals that tend to drive us to take some actions.With that i call these “Negative Emotions” as “Power Emotions”..

Say for Example,what does that Emotion of Fear means..does that mean you don’t have to take action..Nooooo…Not at all..It means that “You are not prepared yet and you need to get yourself prepared a lot more faster”.all you need is to get yourself Prepared and Act Immediately

What does that “Frustration” called…It means that you yourself believe that you are far more superior to what you just did and you can do a lot more and you believe you can do lot more”..And in this case,you can take the feedback from your result and act Immediately to live a greater life what you deserve”…

If you check this applies for all emotions..thats why i call them “Power Emotions”,the emotions that signals you the message in a Powerful Way..

Power Emotions have a Certain Characteristics..If you get the Message in the first time itself,it rewards you..else it signals you in a much more Powerful Way..say the first time it “Nudges you in the shoulder to take some action,the second or third time it gives you a TAP in your back”..If you still didn’t listen to it,then takes your attention by giving you a VERY VERY BIG BLOW in your Back,signaling you to take some action.

But Check What Happens? People Generally when they experience these power emotions,the first time they tend to neglect it and when it becomes bigger they “Soften” it saying ,”Hahnn,its nothing,i can handle this”,though tend to bombard their head thinking “Why is this happening to me,what this shit means?..etc..” and the third time when they get a Blow,then they take action and they seek out personal development articles which again say in a stylsih accent,how to “Supress” these emotions? or how not to experience these emotions?”.So after getting “Educated”..they resist these power emotions in a better way and since they are a lot more powerful they get your attention,by giving you a bigger blow..and this cycle Continues and after a while you see yourself going no where?

So what is the solution?

First Drill this deep in your head..”Power Emotions are your Friend’s who help you and not enemies who’ve came to cripple you”.Power Emotions are your Best Friends,just that they are from mars and they have their unique Language,and all you need is to understand their language, and act with it”

Second “Acknowledge the Emotion” that you experience.You don’t have to Neglect it or Resist it or Soften it..Just Acknowledge that you experience those emotions and appreciate them.

Third “Get the Meaning what they Say”. This is a little Tricky Part.Most People Struggle here.They React to these emotions,Instead of Responding to them.So how do we do that?…The answer is “Questions?” .Ask yourself certain questions like

What does this mean? or what does this Really mean?
What is good about this? or What is Great About this?
What is that, i am not noticing,that will help me in the long term?
How can Respond to this in a better way and also enjoy the process?

Remember ,your Brian is really really a Magical Lamp, that can give whatever you want and answer whatever the questions you ask..If you ask Questions like “Why am i so fat?”,then it answers ,”Because you’ve been eating like a PIG in the past”..Instead if you ask,”How can i reduce my weight?, it answers you appropriately..Even better if you ask,”How can i reduce my weight and also enjoy the Process?”.It will come up with even better answers…

So ask Better Questions and Get the Real Meaning of the Emotions.

Fourth “Act immediately”.As soon as you get the meaning,Do something.Act the Solution and get Going.

Fifth,the most critical and most important element..”Appreciate and Celebrate it”.Think for a Moment,you’ve done some thing that you’ve never done in the past.Doesn’t this need a Little “Hi-5″.Take some time to appreciate yourself for what you’ve done and Celebrate it”.Remember if you appreciate it and Celebrate it,you feel Better and you get addicted to this entire process and you tend to repeat this whenever you want?.You don’t have to take my Word,Do this Actually and feel the difference yourself…

Doesn’t these So called “Negative Emotions” are the “Power Emotions”.They Certainly are….

and ,what if even after doing these,you are experiencing these Power Emotions on a consitent Basics.Well that has to do with other two components of yours..

What are those “TWO” Components?.

First Master these Steps and get the Momentum..I’ll Say that in a Different Time .

Till then Have Fun and Enjoy Life to the Core..

Awesome Movie..

Nivas K — Fri, 13 Jun 2008 04:51:09 +0000

I watched this Movie Yesterday Night and it is “Totally Awesome”.

My Favourite Part is when the Panda (Po) discovers the True Meaning of the “Dragon Scroll”.

Hitting Lines from the Movie:

“There is No Secret and thats a Big Secret“.

“There is only News,there is nothing called Good or Bad News,it becomes a one only in the way you take it“

“It is Never Late to be What you might have been“…

“……,you can,all you need is to Believe in it“

and so many..Of course the movie also has the “Yeeeeahhhh…Hoooooooh” Kung Fu..

But Seriously if you’re missing a Good Movie for a long time,similar to me,then this movie is like one Big Treat for you..Never Miss it…

I will check if i can Upload the Entire the Movie…

My Tweets..

Nivas K — Thu, 12 Jun 2008 12:19:29 +0000

Social Media rocks…I’ve Known about Web 2.0 and all other Technical Stuff for a long time,but as i am a little technophobic,i was away from those for quite a long time..But all of a sudden one day i started testing them and wonder what???

“It Broke my stupid Beliefs”.I do had a Paradigm shift from “Machine is using us ” to “Machine is Us ing us“.Of the latest,My Interest in now,Micro-Blogging.

Wondering what that CRAP Is?.Actually it takes blogging to the next level,making web more Human and it is a wonderful way of connecting with friends.You may be “Enjoying with your Girl Friend in the some Beach Resorts or Attending the Most Crucial Business Meeting or Attending your RockStart Show or whatever………..”,you can always be in touch with your Friends…….

Listen My tweets and Friends me Up in Twitter

Reclaiming your True Identity.

Nivas K — Wed, 11 Jun 2008 06:00:23 +0000

What is your Limits? To be True,we all don’t know what is our limits.The Only way to know our limits is to go beyond Ourselves…But are there times where you want to do lot of things,but find some thing pulling back? Remember the Key decision what you made in the past that has shaped your life and had a major impact in your life.How it could be ,If you can go back in time and rectify those dirty decisions what you made in the past.

Then Be sure to watch this video,(yeah you guessed it correct..ok..ok..i won’t disappoint you, it is from tony only ).Watch the video fully,as you could find your gold nugget scattered in it…

Want to be a Effective Persuader?

Nivas K — Wed, 11 Jun 2008 05:49:50 +0000

Who doesn’t want to be a Rockstar?.Who doesn’t want to Persuade people and influence them? Who doesn’t want to have a major impact in life’s of their spouse and children?

To My knowledge,the answer is “No One”

Everyone wants to be a inspiration to others.Everybody wants to impact people’s lifes in one way or the other.If you want to be a effective persuader,a master influencer,then watch this “10 steps to Effective Persuassion” video,by none other than TONY ROBBINS..

I know..I know..I can understand from that Wide smile on your Face..so Why wait?…go and get started…

Tony Robbins Biography

Nivas K — Wed, 11 Jun 2008 05:40:59 +0000

Tony is really awesome guy..If you’re one of those who are very much inspired by the works of tony robbins,then this video is a special treat for you.Watch this Biography of tony robbins and how he Rose to the top to the seat of “Motivational Guru” starting from nowhere…This is not a rare feat,but will definitely help you in taking some of the most important decisions in life..Remember “It is in your Moments of Decision,Your Destiny is Shaped”.

Keys to “Unlimited Success’

Nivas K — Wed, 11 Jun 2008 05:32:07 +0000

A very good Video which is inspiring Enough..Tony’s awesome stuff.This Video Features Tony in his early ages and this video shares the 3 fundamental keys you’ve to master,if you’re looking for massive success..

The Next Wave of the decade.

Nivas K — Sun, 08 Jun 2008 10:00:27 +0000

Imagine Billgates has jus now introduced Microsoft and he is looking for investors for his business.or Imagine Sergey Brin and Larry Page have jus now developed Google and is looking for ways to raise capital for Google.Will you be Interested in Investing in them?.Not now as you’ve discovered that they are Big Blockbusters,but in way back when they are in the development stage. Those who’ve Positioned themselves in investing in them are now billionaires.That Decade showed that “Computers and Internet” are the next Generation wave.

What is the Next Wave of this Decade that you can tap into that will make you a billionaire?.

7 Steps to Success

Nivas K — Sun, 08 Jun 2008 07:13:58 +0000

First and foremost i want to make it clear.This is not the Crippy Crappy list that list the success Secrets in form of Bulleted list and make you feel comfortable.These are the Exact Steps given by Tony robbins and also you get to hear from his own voice..Isn’t it amazing…

‘Twin Forces’ Behind all your Actions

Nivas K — Sun, 08 Jun 2008 07:00:15 +0000

Have you Ever Wondered why you do what you do?.What are the forces that direct all your actions.There are certain times where you are flooded with creativity and will be bombarding with energy and behave like the Absolute smartest person available on earth…on the other hand,there are certain times where your actions made you think “Is it me who did this?”..yeah probably everyone have references to this….

Watch this video ,where Tony Robbins Uncovers the two forces,that shapes your lives..ofcourse there are lot other things to watch in this….

Branding Game.

Nivas K — Sat, 07 Jun 2008 11:44:15 +0000

I got My Perceptino totally Changed by this man.I got this man introduced to me By Rich Schefren,and this guy is so much awesome.He is a Maven,a Genius a standalone expert in his own niche which i thought as nothing.The Guy is named Gary vaynerchuk.He is the Director of Operations of winelibrarytv.com.He runs a Video Blog called Winelibrarytv.vom,where he sips wine in front of camera and talks about wine and he managed to attract 85000 visitors per day (yeah that’s not a typo).But what makes him really different is the way he leveraged the social media.He is a Marketing Genius.One Of the things that he says that i agree to the core is “Don’t Buy lists,Create your Lists”. This video can give a little bit gist about this person.

Just Blogging

Nivas K — Sun, 16 Mar 2008 13:26:14 +0000

After a long time,I thought of giving Myself an Online Presence.

A space for Myself where i talk about everything…..When i say “Everything”..I mean it…